If there is one thing I can tell you about my experience with life it is the fact that life is unpredictable just like the weather. No matter what you’re expecting usually it just rains on you for no particular reason. What ever is going on in your life somehow it has an awesome way of sidestepping and going in a direction you weren’t at all expecting.
When life throws a hurdle you can jump and keep running or you can sit down and wait for the hurdle to move. Whether the hurdle moves or not is another story. When I was younger I was definitely the sit down kind of kid. I hated homework. I never wanted to do it and when my teacher would give me homework I would throw a massive tantrum screaming, kicking the walls banging my head against the desk it all just seemed too hard. Then one day I was told that my homework isn’t going to do itself. If I start it now I will be one step closer to finishing. Since then I have taken that advice and applied it to everything I do. There are always going to be things you don’t want to deal with.
Life will always throw something your way that you aren’t expecting. Whether it’s an issue with your relationship, having to move house, something with your job you’ve always got two options. Sit and wait or be proactive. You can wait for the storm to pass or you can learn to dance in the rain. You might look a bit silly but lets be honest dancing in the rain is always going to be a lot more fun.