When you look at your life is there a moment in time you let someone else define you, define what you were doing. Did you ever let someone else influence you vision, your dream what you want to do. If you answered yes to any of those questions you need to remember this life is yours and you need to live it. You can’t possibly make everyone happy so start living for you.
Don’t allow other peoples negativity to effect you and your mood. Try not to let other peoples views influence your aspirations. People are always going to have opinions. whether it’s an opinion on social media or an opinion they say to your face listen to what they have to say but they aren’t necessarily right. Just because someone doesn’t see eye to eye with you it doesn’t mean you need to change your views. You don’t need to adjust yourself to fit in or be accepted. This is your life.
We are constantly faced with decisions. You’re constantly under pressure to be the best you. People watch you make the next step. Some people want you to fail, some people will support you. Some people will agree with you and some people will question every move you make. Most of the time your decisions don’t actually effect other people. Unless you’re in a relationship, they are a family member or a close friends your decisions are your choice. Don’t underestimate your power to make a decision. Don’t second guess your intuition. Follow your heart usually your instincts won’t fail you.
I such at making decisions I am the most indecisive person. I don’t like making decisions because I don’t want to make the wrong decision. I don’t want to let people down. I don’t want people to think negative things about me. There are a million excuses I can come up with so I don’t have to make a decision but eventually I am going to have to make a decision and there really isn’t a need to get so caught up in it. The more time you spend thinking about making a decision the less time you have to enjoy it. Calculate your decisions before you make them but don’t be afraid to not look back. When you’ve made your decision that is final, there is no need to look back. Focus on the positives if your decisions come with negatives think about how you might do things differently next time but look at this as an opportunity to learn. There is no need to surround yourself with negative energy. Brush it off get back up and keep going. This is your life.
This is your life. Grab it with both hand. Shape it. Sculpt it. Make what you want of it. Life won’t ever be perfect but with a little hard work you can make your life a little more like the life you’ve always dreamed of.
Now get out there and seize the day.
This is the beginning.
This is the beginning of the rest of your life.