Cara Delevigne is one of those people who seems to have everything. Delve a little deeper into her life and you see a completely different side of her. I am a huge believer that people are people and everyone has feelings, everyone has bad days, everybody has thoughts feelings and emotions they don’t really show. The thing I want you to take away from this is the fact that it doesn’t matter who you are you’re a person and even the people you look up to have bad days. Money doesn’t make you happy, fame doesn’t make you happy to find real happiness you must search inside you to find it. Living a balanced life can definitely make you feel happier. Sometimes it is as easy as taking a break and focusing on yourself for a minute. I think life is an individual experience you can’t look at someone else’s life and want what they have. You can want to share moments of their life but it’s unattainable living someone else’s dream. It’s perfectly fine to not know what you want to do. It’s perfectly fine to admit you’re confused. It is more than fine to have a bad day. You’re a human you get tired you feel overwhelmed you feel in love, you experience heart break, friends will come and go. Hopefully one day you can find that happiness for yourself.
Learning to accept yourself is paramount in finding happiness. Every person has insecurities, things that make them feel uncomfortable. Love yourself and embrace your flaws. The thing I struggle with most is wanting things to be perfect. The truth of the matter is perfection doesn’t exist. Try not to have expectations because having expectations can lead to disappointment. Keep an open mind. When you think you’ve got an open mind open it wider. You can’t be too open minded. Loving yourself is one of the hardest things you can do. You’re the only person who knows everything that you’ve done. You’re the only person who knows all of you weaknesses, flaws and challenges. Every person has weaknesses flaws and challenges. Don’t be afraid of them. Don’t be afraid to admit to them and most importantly don’t let them define you. I’ve used the saying life is short make the most of it so many times and I am beginning to dislike that saying. time is a challenge. Time is something that control us. Time is something that defies us. Time is an excuse at the end of the day time is bullshit. You don’t have to do anything by a particular time. Move in your own time. Don’t rush. Take it slow. Do what you want to do when you want to do it. Your flaws are the most beautiful parts of you.
You really don’t owe anyone anything. You are an individual. You have flaws. You have struggles. Your life isn’t easy. You are capible. You are incredible. You defy odds. You have purpose. Don’t ever let anyone tell you any different.
Even in your deepest darkest moment you’re not alone.