Ok so while you’re reading this blog you need to have the following song on repeat!
Change is both exciting and daunting. Sometimes we don’t have a choice when it comes to change. Sometimes decisions are made for us and we have to live with those decisions. It can be hard living with a change you don’t want to happen but eventually you will learn to live with the pain, you will learn to love again and your anger will turn to forgiveness. None of this is going to happen over night so grab some popcorn and prepare yourself because I am telling you this will be a rollercoaster of emotion. You’ll have good days, you’ll have bad days. You will smile you will scream and more often than not you will feel confused. Can I just say confusion is ok. You don’t have to understand everything and while it would be nice if we could understand the inside of someone elses mind unfortunately that is never going to happen so sometimes you just have to let it go.
Letting go isn’t giving up. Letting go is say I tried my best and now it’s time to focus my energy on something else. In order to let go you need express your feelings, you need to grieve the loss let it out! Let it all out. Every little bit of anger every little bit of confusion what ever is going on in that mind of yours get it out. Talk to someone, write something lay in silence and just think if you think that is going to help. There seriously is no rhyme or reason to this letting go business but I guess what I am trying to say is take back the reigns. If you’ve been waiting on someone to make a decision. If you’ve been confused about something make your own mind up. Do what is right by you. Sometimes we have to be selfish to be kind and it will hurt right now but down the track you as a person will be stronger. Make a decision today that your future self would thank you for.
I believe in being your own person, making your own decisions and moving through life with grace. You shouldn’t ever hold someone back whether it’s intentional or not. We are all have spirits and our spirits were designed to fly. Your spirit might be crushed right now but I want you to picture the most beautiful parrot soaring across a jungle. That bird is your spirit and one day it will soar higher than ever before. To enable yourself to progress you need to forgive the pain, forgive the anger understand that sometimes the timing just wasn’t right. You could hope for a different outcome and hope for the rest of your life that things will go back to the way they were and maybe they will. But right now that isn’t something you should think about. It’s time to focus your time and energy into things that are going to progress you as a person, things that will progress your career. Think of all the things you want to achieve and make a list write them down and check them off. The best thing you can do for yourself is build your character.
You are good enough to achieve your dreams.
You are stronger than you think.
The pain of today makes tomorrow’s stars brighter.
Take a breath.
Take another breath.
It’s not giving up, it’s letting go and moving to a better place.
– All The Love