This morning I stumbled upon a quote and yeah I know what you’re thinking… You always stumble across quotes find a new hobby. One day I will promise. But right now quotes are my thing. I love these little nuggets of gold. You either relate to them, get confused by them or they just make you stop and think for a minute. Today’s quote is one that confuses me. Sometimes it’s hard to know what to do and this quote pretty much sums that up in one.
In life we experience positive and negative and sometimes the positive turns into the negative which leaves you at a cross roads. Do you walk away from the situation? Do you try and fix the situation? If you try and it didn’t work out do you try again? How many times should you try again. Is there a wrong or right answer. The only question I know the answer to is the last one. We will never know if there is a right or wrong answer. Sometimes you just have to try and keep trying. One day eventually you will find your answer. You will either get sick of being hurt and decide the only option is to walk away. Or the hard work and suffering that you have endured will all pay off. I wish there was a way that I could just tell you what to do. I wish I could say “this person isn’t going to change just focus on your own life.” Personally I do believe people can and will change. Personally I believe each and everyone of us have our own needs and desires and sometimes we get a little lost along the way. Eventually we will work it out and maybe it will be too late. Maybe that person will have moved on maybe the opportunity won’t be there when you’ve finally figured it out but everything happens for a reason. I guess you just have to hope for the best outcome and if it doesn’t work out the way you wanted it to don’t let that hold you back. There is an entire world out there. An entire life you’ve got to live.
Last year I had to make a massive decision. I was offered a job with another company. The job looked amazing and I thought it was going to be an incredible opportunity. I was ready for a change and I was ready to tackle this new opportunity with both hands. Had I taken that job I would be looking for a new job now because the company that offered me a job announced this week that they were closing down. It’s weird to think how life works out for you. It was one of the biggest decisions I have had to make and I didn’t sleep for a week when I was trying to decide if I should or shouldn’t take the job. Here I am less than a year later super thankful I decided to stay in the job that I am in.
Everything in life is unknown. Our relationships, friendships and careers are all unknown. It might be great right now, it might be awful. Your life might be in equilibrium but there is that one part that is missing. If there is something on your mind right now just remember this issue won’t be on your mind forever. Eventually everything will make sense. I know it’s a lot easier said than done but try not to over think anything. What will be will be. You don’t have control over everything in life and that’s what is exciting. One day you’re going to meet someone who loves you more than anyone in this world. They will love you unconditionally. they will choose to have you in their life. Of the 7 billion people in the world they want to be with you. That’s a pretty special feeling. Eventually you will find your dream job and you will be happy knowing there is nothing in this world that you would rather be doing. In the meantime work hard, dream big and treat every single person with the respect that you would expect from other people.
“One Of the hardest decisions you will ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder.”
Maybe I am stupid but I vote try. Try because you owe it to yourself to not give up on any of your dreams.
All The Love.