The changes that have occurred recently have been interesting they’ve been hard to handle and they’ve definitely been confusing. When you fall in love there is nothing more you want than to give that special person happiness. Unfortunately happiness isn’t something you can give someone, it isn’t something you can buy and you really can’t just force it upon someone.
Life moves in very weird and mysterious ways but at the end of the day life is a journey it is supposed to be shared sometimes you think you’re going to share a lot with a person but it doesn’t quite end up that way. Life is a journey I believe there is a road mapped for you. Sometimes the road takes a turn in a different direction but don’t let it stump you. Make the most of the road, try and dodge the potholes and if you can’t, just enjoy the potholes the best you can. I guess what I am trying to say is that nothing in life is ever going to be perfect. While nothing in life is perfect no one should ever try and force you to become something. No one in life should ever make you feel as though what you’re doing isn’t good enough.
The world is full of people. People have different qualities, experiences and talents if two people were the same life would be very boring, celebrate your point of difference, celebrate the fact that you are the only you in this world.
In all aspects of life there are priorities, priorities are so important for one simple reason if your priorities aren’t right you’re never going to succeed in life. I know my priorities haven’t been right recently but the realisation came a little too late and now I have to get used to doing things alone. Well that is what I thought. I came quickly to the realisation that I am never alone. I have some of the most incredible people around me. My family are amazing, my friends are so supportive and actually I am comfortable enough in myself to know that this change is for the better. Letting go is difficult but fighting an endless battle is so much harder. Day to day life can be a battle but love never should be. Love should be easy. Like everything in life love comes with ups and downs if your downs are outweighing your ups then you definitely need to make some changes. I guess what I want you to realise is that relationships are difficult but if you’re in a relationship that isn’t healthy it’s going to help not only you but that person you love as well. It won’t be easy, it will hurt but just think, am I appreciated, does my opinion matter, am I happier now than I was before? And if you are unhappy ask yourself does life go on outside this relationship and the answer is always YES! Life has a weird way of working itself out. Before this relationship started you survived by yourself didn’t you? This person may have brought you a lot of happiness but not every relationship is supposed to last. Everything happens for a reason and I truly believe you’ve got the strength to carry on. As you know I’m always here if you need a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen. Hang in there! You might feel like it’s the end of the world but it’s just the beginning of your future happiness tread carefully, but tread with confidence.